“Feeling Safe with Finances: A Journey of Reflection”
Michelle opens up about her financial insecurities and triggers in a recent interview with Ramit Sethi. Since the onset of COVID-19, she and her partner have made strides in saving money and investing in their IRA. However, despite these efforts, Michelle confesses that she still feels unsettled. At 52 years old, she expected a different financial reality for herself, one where a husband would take care of their finances and investments.
In a candid conversation with Ramit Sethi, Michelle delves into her upbringing and the influence her parents had on her relationship with money. She recounts how her mother was always quick to provide financial assistance, fostering a pattern where money was readily available without the need for budgeting or financial responsibility.
Reflecting on her past, Michelle acknowledges the lessons of gratitude and generosity that her parents instilled in her but also recognizes the shortcomings, such as a lack of financial literacy and discussions about money within the family. Coming from a background where traditional gender roles dictated that the husband would handle financial matters, Michelle shares how these deep-rooted beliefs have impacted her own views on money.
When asked about her relationship with her partner, Michelle admits that conversations about money have been scarce and often lead to feelings of frustration and anger. She expresses disappointment in the lack of financial responsibility from her partner and the absence of open communication about finances in their relationship.
Through this introspective dialogue, Michelle begins to unravel the stories and beliefs she has carried with her surrounding money and starts to question where these narratives originated. As she embarks on a journey of self-discovery and financial empowerment, Michelle’s story serves as a reminder of the importance of understanding our past influences to shape a more secure financial future.